Wednesday, April 16, 2008

tired (not exhausted)
stretched
well travelled
loved
reflections full


I did this 5 Words to describe your life thing - with the Queen one lunch time about 5 years ago.
They, above, are mine as I fade out after a long day.
Not had access to a computer all day, online I mean.
No chances to sneek in a little blog or post a new vibe,
full of new vibes too - here at Wilson Mansions.

Funny - I am tired but not in a weak way.
I feel deep things and had another full-on day, including being in a car park called M25/M1 !!

I am full of experiences and have needs to reflect.

I lurve working with groups.
As usual I don't do 100% of what I would love to do.
Always in the deep end.
Always have to busk-it.


How do you work with humans in a group who have lived with pretty harsh experiences of::
- being rejected as a child
- seeing a friend stabbed to death
- abuse
- mental health issues
- alcoholism
- drug misuse
- and multiple issues for some.

Love comes in handy.
Seeing past, beyond, the behaviour - another.
Loving the number one.
These humans who are, so called, at the bottom end of society, can read head and body language like no others.
They have great crap detectors.
The read all the non verbal language.
Words are meaningless unless the whole body frame is saying
you are acceptable
you are special
I want to be here with you
It isn't work to be here with you.
I don't cringe when feeling the hot breath full of foul language.
I don't step back when tested with put-downs
and love comes in handy
(Thanx for the great present you give us all)
loving ............. and being loved is just .................

We need to say, without words always, sometimes with words THIS ...........

1 I am not ok ................ you are not ok
2 I am not ok ................ you are ok
3 I am ok ...................... you are not ok
4 I'm ok ........................ you're ok

............ say the number 4 here ............. that's what needs to be heard ......
The others are NOT OK
!