Friday, March 18, 2016

It's not what happens TO us that directs our lives - It is what happens IN us. - a reflection to my TWEET.




It's not what happens TO us 
that directs our lives -
It is what happens IN us. 



I was asked what do I mean by the above.
So more words
I have to dig into my soul for ………

We are not a BODY with SOUL
We are a SOUL with a BODY.

The inner human is the real deal
our inner is the real person.

We often display to others
a person we think/feel will be acceptable.
NOT at all like the inner human
the vulnerable human
alongside our strengths.

‘Why am I afraid to tell you who I am?
BECAUSE if I tell you who I am
and you don’t like who I am
That is all I have.’
(the title of my FAV book of all time)

As I understand it -
where I am at
and I am still becoming
discovering
learning
striving
stumbling ………..

Many experience happen to us.
Even the worst ones
are leaning experiences
(GROWTH does not reside
in a place called comfortable)

From experiences we 
we take
calculate
learn
retreat
reach out
shrink
or
stride on
any one/or more of these 
driving us on …..
including becoming the person we decide to be.

Our soul is a melting pot of experiences.
In us is the powerhouse which 
decides on how we
love
comunicate
converse
communicate
verbalise
articulate
(WORDS ONLY 7% of communication
facial expression is 55%
the rest is body language)

Unless a person is damaged/disabled so badly
that they can’t assimilate experiences
and transform into becoming more ‘whole’,
we all develop inner values
a belief system::
faith
hope
vision
mission
LOVE
which drives our lives
from
inside out.

That is my best offering to date.
I am ever changing.
forever ……………..


Pip BHP
www.pipwilson.com


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