Monday, May 21, 2007








.....have you ever been out for an Indian with two Indians?

There is a well known comedy sketch here in the UK. It shows a big group of Asian men 'going out for an English'!
The drink too much larger and abuse the 'English' waiters, sexist jokes, loud and ignorant eat terrible food and is funny!

We eat more Indian food here in the UK than any other 'take away', we don't say 'to go' here, or restaurant meals!

Last night I had the delight to eat out with Mr Singh and Richard ............... I love em love em ......

Here we were with waiters born in Goa and Bangladesh .............. with the diners from India,from Punjab and Kerala, ........ and it was great.

Mr Singh had fought in the Indian army in 1970 against Pakistan. All in defence of Bangladesh. Before we even looked at the extensive menu - we were talking about where we came from.

Me coming from North West England, St Helens - come on the Saints, did not even get a mention because we were talking 'International Experiences' here.


It was great.
The food was great and wondrous to be with such great humans ............. we talked and talked. Such great yearning as we talked about how to live our lives with longing .............


A couple of weeks ago I scribbled in my little day book::
"Fear does not work on a fearless man" - a Mr Singh quote as we were doing coffee together .......... you know, Costa Coffee houses - at one time they were full of such keywords as 'Free Trade Coffee' ................ NOW ....... there is no sign of the signs. No pressure on them to do something for the poorest! We have to ask for Fair Trade ................ and I trust you do?

Back to Mr Singh .......... he is a man of wisdom. Sometimes, no all times, you have to listen carefully to grab hold of one of his little pearls of wisdom. It is interesting, back to last night, how questions can trigger some great conversations ............... and learning ............. there was a man on a near table who just talked non-stop with opinions. I am not sure the others on his table wanted them. Me? - I didn't.
I think that those beautiful humans who talk in 'Opinions' all the time .......... are not in contact with their feelings and are logjams in 'Level three' mode - do you think? (see "L5" in the search button above to get more thoughts on Level Five.)



Are you always thinking about life?
Or am I odd?

I am always thinking 'where I am' and yearning and longing to live life ............. and you?
I am trying to feel all my feelings, even now, and trying to develop my interior as well as my exterior life lived .............. I must ask Joan whether I am living all this out and not just mouthing it.

Do you ever feel beautiful?
You are beautiful
Do you ever consider yourself to be beautiful?
You are beautiful
Do you ever consider yourself to be becoming beautiful?
You are beautiful
Do you ever consider yourself to be imperfection?
You are beautiful Imperfection ....................


Thank you for joining me in that place and this place .......

..... and I have lots to reflect on ........... but click here to read about my sort of man .. ... .....

Sunday, May 20, 2007

"Relationships
are the source of our growth as persons.

There must be at least one person
with whom he or she is totally open

and feels totally safe at the same time"


Paul Tournier

Saturday, May 19, 2007













Pearls of Wilson


.... and here you see us all .. .. of course some of us have just returned from Marrakesh .... and leaving the old man at home ....... but I love em love em ...


'Pearls of Wilson' is the title of a monthly page in a magazine called 'Youthwork' - right up my streets ....... the June 2007 edition is out now with a resource you can photocopy and use in groups.

Youarebeautiful

Friday, May 18, 2007








A man called Jim Punton was of major non-oppressive influence on me over many years.
When I worked with youth gangs in East London he was the human I went to for support and reflective good youth work practice...... and spiritual reflection.

When under pressure - we learn.

What I found out about SHALOM changed me ....... and still does ......

Jim Punton was a Greenbelt Board member for years and speaker at the festival for many years.
He had a major influence on Greenbelt in the formative years.
Also a Trainer with Frontier Youth Trust.

HEARTHISHEARTHIS ............
Jim Punton has written that shalom means:-



Shalom.
Hebrew word usually rendered 'peace' in English versions of the Bible.

"a For the individual - a totally intergrated life of health of body, heart and mind, attuned to nature, open to others, in joy with God.

b Between persons - sharing, mutuality and love.

c In community or society - justice, dignity, independence and freedom, harmony and reciprocity, the contentment with 'enough' that all may have 'enough'.

It is he opposite to oppression, violence, and selfishness; it means man/woman as a caring trustee of creation, having ended exploitation, indifference and irresponsibility. This is something of the shalom of God 'which passes all understanding', the total well-being he wills for man - woman and the cosmos, the goal of his mission, the content of his reign"


Jim died about 10 years ago.
You may see how the above understanding permeates my life.

At the end of 'Gutter Feelings' - my first book ...... I ended with this Bible verse;

"Seek the Shalom of the City
- because in it's Shalom
- you will find your own Shalom"


www.pipwilson.com

Dance like no-one is watching
Sing like no-one is listening
and
Love like you have never been hurt.


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.... I am on the London Tube
writing mindmap notes in my little book
I see humans all around me
close close - so close
calm ones
stressed
sweating
newspapers in many faces
books
bodies so close as if we knew each other
no words around
sleeping
zombie
earbuds
iPodtube
me too.

I was so tired this morning commuting out
could not read much of the Guardian
I closed my eyes for sometime
breathing underground air
fumes
I relaxed
I came alive once I was amongst humans .......

Feel I am learning more than ever
Deep drilling more than ever
aware I am yet so unaware
more than ever
unconsciously incompetent
I don't know what I am unaware of.....

Humans make life worth living
I drink in as they discover
explore
extend
stretch
yearn
with mine .........

A person so locked in
taking a risk for her own development
taking her clothes off - like
soul undressing
vulnerability by choice
knockout for all of us
wow.

Love seeing humans leaning forward - engaging
others leaning back - disengaging
another showing disapproval without words
Love seeing their eyes - who they are gripped by
the arms move to the 'folded' position
a face has just left the room
the mind behind it is - elsewhere.

Someone wants to control their feelings
feelings need managing - not controlling
feelings are essential signals
do you drive through red lights?



Yes it is Lifewilson here and I think about so many things and all of them start with my feelings.
Subconsciously - mostly.
I am trying to be more sensitive to my feelings. Feeling every one.
I believe that most of our feelings are unfelt.
Yet our behaviour demonstrates them to another!
What's that all about?

Thinking gets in the way of feelings sometimes. We think of lots of things but, so often, don't think about our feelings.
So we drift away with our thoughts which are triggered by feelings which are triggered by stimulants. Exterior ones - and from the interior.

So read the right things
mix with the right humans
and the right humans are ............................................................


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Thursday, May 17, 2007



























THE BLOB TREE ::
..... here are the two newest BOOKS and details of a whole range of tools for people persons all over the world!


THE BLOB TREE
The Blob Tree came out of my work in the East End of London - working with young people who could not or would not read.
I led a large Team of People Workers working with street gangs including lots of group work....... and still do lots of Group Work.
The Blob Tree is about 20 years old now and is used all over the world.

Now I am employed as a Trainer/Group Worker and also freelance Facilitator and Group Worker. These tools have been developed as I work with different kinds of beautiful humans week on week. There are Blob Tools with differing purposes because they are flexible for your use! All about helping people to open up and develop and grow ........ I use many of them in my work every week with humans who struggle with life.
I love Group Work and find that creating the right climate of trust and easing humans into self revelation is the most beautiful experience in development terms. I also use these tools, and other tools in the range of books, in Facilitation and Training Staff who work with special needs humans in the Voluntary and Corporate Sector.

Full List of Tools/Publications available ::

1 Blob Tree CD-Rom
This is 'The Big Book of Blobs' with no clothes on!
It is the book in CDR format with 'The Blob Tree' and a collection of 50 of the currently most popular images for use with data projectors, computers, whiteboards etc..
Contains Blob Iceberg, Blob Emotions, Blob Sleep, Blob Needs, Blob Christmas, Blob Doors and many more.
This CDR, for personal use - with groups led by yourself etc., costs £20.00 + p&p = £21.00


2 BBB
'The Big Book of Blobs' was first published in August 2005, now sold out, BUT republished February 2007. It has over 50 x A4 size 'Blob Tree' type tools.
You have permission to photocopy for your own use in a face to face context.
There are many beautiful and powerful new tools here with permission to photocopy for personal use.
It cost £30-ish and is available only from:: http://www.incentiveplus.co.uk/
Their web-site is terrible - try the telephone:: 0190 852 6120

3 'You Are a Beautiful Human Person' BOOK.
This was new in September 2006, a 'Mr Men' size book which has a few affirmative words alongside Blobs illustrations.
It is affirmative to the hilt with also a gentle/simple Christian emphasis.
Available from me ONLY.
The book costs £6.00 + p&p = £7.00

4 A3 Blob Tree Posters - 2 sets of Posters - Top Sellers.
Four A3 size posters have been published too.
They are in colour and the pack has four different blob trees.
A booklet is part of the pack with ideas for use.
Not available from me.
Order online from::
http://www.incentiveplus.co.uk/

5 MINI BLOB TREE POSTERS
These were new product in May 2006. There is four different Blob Trees x A5 size, in each set, produced in colour and on good quality/thick paper. Ideal to use in small group work.
Available from::
http://www.incentiveplus.co.uk/

6 The Very Stinking Rolling Magazine Book .
This 250 page Book, published in 1991 by Harper Collins, has several 'Blob Tree' type images and 100+ Games and Exercises.
The are many unique tested Group Work ideas and tools plus a specialist guide indicating sensitivity when working those with with Humans with Special Needs - we all have abilities and disabilities!
AVAILABLE FROM ME ONLY.
This Book costs £10.00* which includes p&p UK.
email me via home page.

7 The Little Book of Blob Questions
This was new in June 2006. Not only does it have The Blob Tree and 14 other Blob Tools, it has some ideas of how to use in a group context and several questions to trigger you own preparation for use.
AND this you can buy on line ::
Printed version or as a Download. (Not available from me.)
http://www.lulu.com/content/326706

8 The Big Book of Blob Feelings - a New in February 2007
Full of Blob Tools which are much in demand by Counsellors, Educational Psychologists and Mediation Workers etc..
Includes the Blob Tree, Blob Feelings, Blob Depression, Blob Families,and many more.
Only available from
http://www.incentiveplus.co.uk/

9 Blob Spirituality - ONLY available online.
Blob Spirituality is a book of visual tools designed to enable deep conversations about issues which matter to people.
Using the primary languages common to all people - body language and feelings - it provides the user with a means to explore issues as wide as bullying and change, through to Christmas and Weddings.
Take a look at the contents page to see the full range of visuals.
Available as a download or to buy as a book ONLY from::
http://www.lulu.com/content/569723

10 Downloads or Books online::
These tools are being added to regularly - feel free to take a peep .....
See also these to download or order online::
http://www.lulu.com/content/348459
http://www.lulu.com/content/341012
http://www.lulu.com/content/341007
http://www.lulu.com/content/413403


Hope this is helpful - please get back to me if you have questions.

Pip Wilson bhp






EXTRA READING if you wish ...........
- two great reviews ::

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Read what the Times Educational Supplement said in January 2006
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Enlist the power of the Blob

Jerome Monahan
Published: 20 January 2006

The Big Book of Blobs By Pip Wilson and Ian Long £12 (including p&p); the A3 posters are £19 (including p&p)
Here are two new words that could well enter the lexicon in 2006.

The verb "to blob"and its associated noun "blobster" meaning a convinced user of Blobs in training and education work with adults and young people.

The roots of both are the endlessly adaptable "Blob" people (born of a collaboration between artist Ian Long and group worker and trainer Pip Wilson) and now gathered into a collection of over 50 fresh illustrations designed to promote communication and emotional literacy.

The book begins with the original "BlobTree" that has been doing the rounds of schools and counselling settings for many years and features a population of jelly baby-like figures climbing, hanging and falling from trunk and branches and demonstrating behaviour ranging from mutual support to out-and-out opposition or complete isolation. "This picture is over 25 years old," says Pip Wilson. "It emerged from my youth work in East London with young people unwilling or unable to read and has circulated since among teachers and other professionals often in the shape of photocopies of photocopies. Now we have greatly extended the range of Blob situations and scenarios - though all offer the same multiplicity of interpretation that made the original so useful a tool."

The new illustrations are gathered into four themed sections: places, such as playground and disco settings; issues, including bullying; families and death; occasions, including a Blob Christmas; and, finally, a set of personal development scenarios. "Most of the situations are open to symbolic interpretation," suggests Ian Long. "They can be used to help children and young people make the leap to some highly sophisticated thinking. They have proved an ideal prompt, helping people to open up about themselves in ways that more direct cross-examining often fails to do."

"The great thing about Blob pictures is the way they provide an entirely non-threatening way into young people's thinking," suggests Norwich-based sex and relationship educational development worker Molly Potter. "I have used them in a variety of circumstances and they are great for drawing out views without the need for any reading whatsoever. They have proved extremely useful helping both secondary and primary pupils. In addition, they have worked as a great ice-breaker for the PSHE sessions I lead with primary teachers." Included in The Big Book of Blobs is guidance about the importance of subtle questioning as the key to the successful use of the images. "The quality of the questions that young people are asked makes all the difference," says Ian Long.

"In co-ordination with the images, effective questions can move young people on from everyday communication to discussing their beliefs and feelings, and eventually reaching the kind of openness from which real progress can flow." Ian Long cites a powerful example involving a distraught Year 4 child he witnessed being able to use a Blobbing session to identify the figure in one image he most felt like at the time. "It was the necessary launch pad he needed to express his current emotions," says Ian. "He took the risk of opening himself up and it produced the extraordinary result of another pupil pointing to a friendly Blob embracing another to articulate how he would like to help his classmate."

For Jill Aitkin, assistant head at Canons High School in Harrow, the moment when Blobs proved their worth was in her work with a young boy whose mother was seriously ill. "His worry was being manifested in aggression," she recalls. "Using the Blob Tree picture with him gave him the chance to point to the figure in mid-air having fallen off a branch - this was how he felt and he immediately burst into tears. It enabled him to express his underlying sadness and anxiety." She adds: "Blobs are deceptively simple figures, recognisably human and manifesting an extraordinary range of emotions and relationships. They are a very direct and yet unobtrusive way to help adolescents explore their feelings."

Sarah Davidson of Slough Borough Council's Educational Psychology Service adds: "The Blob Playground and Bullying pages have proved particularly helpful. But intrinsic to all Blobs is their lack of specific identity.

They are sexless, ageless and without racial characteristics. Even the youngest children can come to own the images, finding in them Blobs that reflect their past and present circumstances and how they would like to be in the future."

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YOUTHWORK MAGAZINE - REVIEW OCTOBER 2005
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Youthwork review

‘One of the most dynamic, flexible and innovative resources the youth work world has ever seen.’
There you go, stick that on the back cover because we mean every word.
Pip and Ian’s ‘Blob Tree’ resource has been around for nearly twenty years now, making a great name for itself over that time. An A4 monochrome image, bereft of writing, it displays a large tree filled with sexless, shapeless, ageless ‘blob people’. Like stick men who’ve chomped one Big Mac too many, their simple yet animated forms are used to represent emotions, decisions, personality types and social situations. A person can point to the blob whose stance, expression or activity they most identify with, and perhaps explain why. And that’s it. Essentially, it’s just a tree full of conversation-starting blobs.
But that, of course, is the brilliance of it. Because of its simplicity, the tree becomes the perfect resource when attempting to get people to talk about themselves and their social interactions. Children enjoy the visual focus, and can discuss important issues; adults identify with the emotions presented in these abstract characters. And there’s no language involved, so the image can be used to the same effect anywhere in the world.
Pip and Ian return here with a whole book of variations on the theme, as their army of cartoons populate more than 50 new scenes. Spread throughout four themed categories, they place the blobs in a range of tree-substitutes – a playground, a protest march, a football match, a community and so on – each designed to spark a different kind of conversation and interaction.
Some examples: on looking at the book now (after all, which blob you are today doesn’t always define which blob you’ll be tomorrow), I define myself as the blob at the back of the cinema; and the blob walking through one of the ‘blob doors’. Simple and silly as they seemed at first, these little people have had a profound effect on my thoughts today.
That’s why this book is so vitally important to youth work in the broadest sense. These illustrations, though almost text free, are deceptively complex and engaging. The potential for both getting people to talk and releasing them to think, is awesome.
The acid test: I’ve tried this with young people already, and had stunning conversations off the back of it. If Youthwork ran the resource Oscars, Pip and Ian’s Big Book of Blobs would have just walked away with the award for Best Picture(s).

Martin Saunders
Editor of Youthwork
Oct 2005

Wednesday, May 16, 2007


... a Brick Lane Curry - London East End, is not just a Curry - it is a meeting of Saints - Holy Communion .... fantastic touching of finger tips .... real unique humans touching ....
..... real humans and I love it love it love it ....














Awareness

"Recently I live like there is a photosensitive surface inside of me, that registrates everything unmistakably, even the smallest details.
So much I am aware ...."

Etty Hillesum.
Before
she was deported the gas chambers of Auswitzch.
(July 10 1942)