Saturday, December 21, 2013

BLISS /GO FULL SCREEN WITH THIS VIDEO /BREATHE SLOW

BLISS
GO FULL SCREEN WITH THIS VIDEO
BREATHE SLOW


Pip Wilson seasonal reflections.



EVERYONE I have met
Has contributed
To my life. 
Made me the human
I am
But I continue to be
A human becoming... 
I appreciate you
#YouAreBeautiful


I have posted the above today
on Twitter
and 
Facebook.

I mean it.

Contributions to my life
by the worst violent
offensive
threatening behaviour.

Homophobic
Racist
Hurting
Violent
Behaviour
and
Beautiful 
words
facial expressions
affirmations
smiles
acts
supporting
touching
loving
helpful
life changing
giving relationships

ALL have contributed
to my 
Learning.
Awareness
Inspiration
Irritation
Challenges
Skills
Faith
Experience ....

Some have behaved like the top worst few
and changed to the bottom best few.
People can/have changed.
I love that.
I believe that.

I will be 75 next year.
The year of our 50th wedding anniversary.
As with Christmas
and year endings ..........
the mind turns to reflections.

I feel so grateful .......

May the child sleeping on the straw Take your sleep away and make you feel




May the child sleeping on the straw
Take your sleep away and make you feel
The pillow of your bed
As hard as a stone
Till you won’t have given hospitality
To a homeless or a foreigner,
To a poor one walking by.
The poor ones that hurry up to the cave,
While the powerful ones plot in the darkness
And the town sleeps in indifference,
May let you understand that,
If you also want to see a big Light
You must start from the last ones.

MERRY CHRISTMAS
…over the old world that dies
May hope be born.

Friday, December 20, 2013

We are all failures


CHRISTMAS EDITION


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Blob Tree Christmas developmental Group-Work IDEA


PEARLS OF WILSON    
Blob Christmas           

Hello beautiful human 
(when is the last time that ANYONE has told you 'you are beautiful'?)

You are beautiful and 
I was 40 years old before I could say I am beautiful 
- and feel it (sometimes-!!)

I don't want to bring-on Christmas too early but I wanted to pass on this Blob Christmas tool 
for you to use in your life and Mission as you prepare for Christmas.

It can be used in different ways such as::

1   A Church Service to stimulate some interaction - at least in the individual brain!

2   A Youth Group leaflet - makes a change from a Snowman or Father Christmas type images.

3   A Youth Group session  which I am focusing on here - just some ideas.

Give all your group a copy - it is more personal that an image on a projector screen.
Ask an opening easy question. 
I always start away from the personal as it is an 
ice-breaker before deeper things ahead. 
Answer these questions for yourself before hand - 
engage with the deeper sense of yourself - 
especially the tough questions!
Have them to share the answers with a human sat next to them, 
often it will be a human they came with!

1   Which Bob is most sad and which is one most happy- and why?

2   Which Blob is having a good time but only superficially - what tells you this?

Split the group up into three's so that everyone is mixed up - do this between every question from now on - to enable the group to get used to change.

3   Which of the Blob scenarios reminds you of your earliest memory of Christmas?

4   Which scenario reminds you of your last Christmas?

5   Which Blob, or Blobs, reminds you of your worst Christmas?

6   Do you follow the flow at Christmas - just follow the crowd, do what your family traditionally do,  or your friends do? Pick a few of the Blobs to describe?

7   Do you feel or believe that you have any choice in how you live your life at Christmas or is your life in the hands of others during this period? (Secondary question -When will you feel ready to make decisions about your own Christmas life?)

8   If you are a human with a faith in God - and trying to live it out - which of these Blobs describes how you would want to live your Christmas life?

9   Look carefully at all the individual Blobs. Which one is in most emotional pain? Put a word to that feeling? Who do you know who feels the same or similar feelings?

10   Think of a human who you know or have seen around your community, school, college or work - someone who speaks in a different accent than the majority, or a different colour of skin, way of life, stigmatised, alone, unkempt, not much money, dependent on chemicals, sad face .. ..... Who will bring Christmas Life and Christmas Love to that beautiful human? (who God loves and Jesus has died for)

11   End with sharing a big tin of Christmas sweets and after all have chosen a sweet - ask everyone to say why they picked that colour and type of chocolate? Does their choice match their personality and character?  ....... a fun way to end.


Last comment ................ these are just ideas. Use your imagination to think of questions which are appropriate for your group - you are expert in you context. But - I recommend going for stretch - outside the comfort zones.

Pip Wilson bhp

LINK TO BLOB CHRISTMAS TOOLS DOWNLOAD - There are several different tools here

I wouldn’t do my duty if I were to tell you “Merry Christmas” without giving trouble to you.




I FEEL
Christmas is coming.
Many I know are excited
others fragile physically
others fragile emotionally
others very ill
others no money for basics
others alone
others cannot go home
others not welcome in any home
others
foodbank ............

I used to dislike Christmas.
I had the emotional HUMP about it.
It = there was so much going on
glitter and tinsel stuff
Father Christmas
and all the trimmings
and I couldn't 
emotionally
spiritually
logically
bring the two ways of living together.

I felt cheating of my faith.
I felt I had to compromise my values.
My beliefs ..............

I have become more joined up now.
I think
I feel
I am more emotionally socially spiritually
competent. 

Maybe not?
Maybe I am just going with the flow?
Maybe I always did that?

Church has never done it for me.
I have always attended church since becoming ....
But it is not all I have.
I want to live spiritually outside
as well as belonging inside.
I always need space to work things through.
In Church sometimes.
Late at night sometimes
Writing sometimes - moreso.

For many Christmases in my life I together with family
have been on duty in a Hostel.
ONLY those present had no-where to go.
Left Overs!

We always made the very best of the occasion.
It was a privilege to serve.
Treats were welcomed and beautifully so.
Some BHP's would come to eat Christmas Dinner
then hide away.
Some would welcome some interaction and even help out.
I feel.

Some years ago
I facilitated a large team from around Europe.
All staff of a large company
multi-billion pound annual turnover.
A small numer have kept in contact.
Christmas connects distant lives.

One BHP sent me this poem.

I want to share it with you::

I wouldn’t do my duty if I were to tell you
“Merry Christmas” without giving trouble to you.
I want to annoy you instead.
I can’t stand the idea
Of being forced to address innocent
Formal wishes imposed by the calendar routine.
It allures me on the contrary
The hypothesis of someone sending them back
To the sender as unwished.
Many uncomfortable wishes then!
May Jesus who is born out of love make you sick
With an egoist , absurd life with no vertical pushes.
And may she warrant you the strength to invent yourself a life
Full of donating, prayers, silence and hope.

                                               

Don Tonino Bello

U2 Will Return to Punk Rock Roots on New Album




U2 Will Return to Punk Rock Roots on New Album

(Ian Gavan/Getty Images)
(Ian Gavan/Getty Images)
U2 still haven’t announced a release date for their new album, but they’re already giving fans hints of what they should expect to hear on the follow-up to 2009′s No Line on the Horizon.
In an interview with the Los Angeles Times,Bono and the Edge talked about the upcoming record, which is slated for an April release. They explained that they came up with a concept for the record where songs are told from the perspective of a young person just figuring things out and partly from someone who is older and wiser. The lyrics are said to focus on the “collision between hard-earned wisdom and youthful hunger.”
The band wants to experiment a little this time around, hence the reason they recruited Danger Mouse to produce the album. But the new record with also have them returning to their roots, channeling their classic records from the ’80s likeWar and Unforgettable Fire. And don’t worry, Bono’s signature falsetto is still front and center on this album. ”There’s just something about a bloke who sings like a chick,” Bono explained.
Bono also noted that their upcoming release was influenced by “stuff we were really listening to when we were younger” like the Clash and Sex Pistols and Kraftwerk, along with with soul and old-school R&B.
Bono also talked about “Ordinary Love,” the band’s first new song in three years that is featured on the soundtrack to the Mandela biopic Mandela: Long Walk to Freedom, explaining that it was “a plea for common decency among the people who’ve been oppressed.”
“And it’s a plea for common decency in a marriage as it starts to fall apart,” Bono said, referring to the marriage of Mandela and his first wife, Winnie, which is shown in the film. The two were married for 38 years — including the 27 years during which Mandela was imprisoned —  before getting divorced in 1996.
Edge added, “We thought it should be a love song, a very human song. Not epic, not earnest in dealing with world-changing political shifts, but personal in two people trying to hold on to one another in the face of dreadful mistreatment and heartbreak.”