Blob World, part of the Blob Tree collection, in ACTION with Oyvin working in Germany - 🅱🅴🅰🆄🆃🅸🅵🆄🅻

 

Oyvin my Norwegian friend 

Opening up some beautiful humans in Germany with this 'Blob World' communication tool.

It is downloadable, INSTANTLY, via www.blobtree.com

It is amazing how this Blob tool can get people thinking talking learning understanding & connecting with each other so easily.

There is a free booklet download available FULL of different ways to use so many developmental tools from www.blobtree.com

HUMANS OPENING UP LIKE FLOWERS TO THE SUN !!!!

Pip BHP

I am lost for words - about you - other than …..

This is where I am at in terms of understanding my own feelings .............

1 My feelings are mine - they don't belong to anyone else.

2  When I feel annoyed it could mean that I have feelings triggered by another persons language or behaviours or a memory, conscious or unconscious, from our own life. BUT the feelings are mine.

3 Blame is a discharge of pain.

4 Where I am at is:: to feel a feeling not react to it without thinking. We can learn to do this:: Pause. Think. Then respond directed by our thinking, based on our values, self awareness.

5 Responding with the keyword "YOU" is usually the start of something regrettable.  Starting a response with the word "I" is usually followed by a more measured verbal response.

A search of this website will give other examples of alternative language useful for our developing our own language and relationships.

All this is so important to me NOW as it has been over years of life management and developing helping relationships with troubles humans of all ages.

BHP

Pipology

Bruce Cockburn live streaming

Many people are on the edge of showing self awareness because it would continue a process of vulnerability & unavailability which they have hidden behind for many years.

 

Torgrim DJ and me facilitating a wild (& developmental) Rolling Magazine Show in NORWAY

 

---------- Lisa I remember your beauty. Your journey of pain which you shared with me. _______

 

Lisa I love you.

It is her birthday tomorrow ::

A few years ago today Lisa dropped off my screen.

She had been ever present on Facebook.

Then silence.

She was as vulnerable as hell.

Like all of us - 

but she was so fragile 

she could not pretend - 

Like I do

Like we do ……..

She always used to carry around 

a screw top coca-cola bottle - 

she carried it everywhere. 

It didn't only have coca-cola inside.

Vodka was always present.

I led regular group work sessions 

in a London hostel where she lived.

Lunch time

with free tea and sandwiches.

Also late night ones starting 10pm.

We used to sit around.

Starting with donuts

dipped in a chocolate fondu.

Individuals all with untold stories

untold feelings.

Some regulars

Some nervous new residents.

I facilitated participation

using Blob Tree tools & more.

All aimed at affirmation

triggering a climate of trust

and humans opening up

like flowers to the sun.

Lisa came to every one.

Unless she was on a bender.

She supported me in lots of ways.

She knew that I hoped someone would 'open up' first.

Someone to 'kick off' sharing honestly = L5.

The kind of vulnerability that gives others permission 

to take that road of vulnerability for themselves.

This sharing of vulnerability

affirms

and says 'I am not alone - there are others like me'

She helped me

She helped others

by sharing, often slurring, herself in the group.

She was truly a beautiful human.

I could tell you many stories

which would trigger my weeping.

I am emotional now as I click keys.

I have many Lisa photographs. 

I would love to share a few

but I won't - with deep respect for her.

It wasn't just alcohol - as normal

there was other addictions 

other damage.

Her birthday - I will always remember

some years ago -  but never forgotten 

She left the world of pain.

I only discovered some weeks later 

that she had died

from a heroin overdose.

A few years ago on her birthday - 29th April.

I clicked into her Facebook page.

I posted a birthday message & love.

I then scrolled down her page to view previous messages.

AND

The last birthday greeting was from myself a year before.

I sobbed my heart out.

Still do - in remembering now………………….

Tears now flow mingled down .......

*

Lisa

I remember your beauty.

Your journey of pain

which you shared with me.

Lisa

You are beautiful

Not a bad bone in your body - 

but many fragile ones.

Lisa

you live on in my memory.

You live on with eternal videos in my head.

Precious one.

Beautiful Human.

May the Divine Taxi driver give you a good ride ……

L⃣o⃣v⃣i⃣n⃣g⃣y⃣o⃣u⃣ ………….

Blob Tree NEW TOOLS

Just Published! Blob Backgrounds - the first create your own version of a Blob Tree and other scenes! Personalise your own Blob Tree with a specific range of feelings, or use the Backgrounds and Blobs for a discussion. Ideal for people working with children and adults. Also included are tools for transitions such as moving class, school and home. Each background is in BW (for annotation) and colour (for use in discussion). A perfect set of tools for SENDCOs, teachers, counsellors, therapists, social workers, children's workers and parents. 

Download from here: https://www.lulu.com/en/gb/shop/pip-wilson-and-ian-long/blob-backgrounds/ebook/product-7dmdg6.html?page=1&pageSize=4

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 BHP 

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