I touch on tears

 Yesterdays Blog

I touch on tears.

Often one person in many will share via tears, unwanted ones, unwanted to disclose tears - but something big going on on inside emotionally.

These are great moments emotionally  - beautiful moments - memorial moments GOOD for the person NOT a moment of weakness.

Beautiful humans share their inner self with me - it is beautiful. Often, they disclose, that they have been in an inner struggle and not been able to self disclose.

It is a great step. ONE step - because the next step needs to me another good rather than a memory.

You may have picked up from my Facebook or here, a little out-burst in response to one of my quotes. Then I love it in others who chip in - wanting to be real even though it hurts. Tear-Up ............

Join me on a journey - becoming an Emotion Detective.

Sometimes teared-up ...................

 

Facilitating a training day for Teaching Assistants -for Teachers etc..

Behaviour an inevitable issue in the classroom. 

At the end of my training session, I am cultivating feedback from everyone in their small groups around the room - getting feedback was a re-enforcement of their learning - and a massive 'take away' learning was::

Focus on FEELINGS not on BEHAVIOUR.

Stand out: REPETITIVE question to the child, equally relevant in a workplace, "how are you feeling?"

If the child, adolescent, employee, facilitator etc, can share their own feelings it gives permission for all present to open up with some level of disclosure at the end of the day.

At the beginning of the day, and throughout, I repeated::

"You are beautiful"

YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL

NOT

What the mirror says

What the scales say

Your certificates say

Your knowledge says

Your body shape says

Your personality says

Your feelings say sometimes

#YouAreBeautiful 

It is the content of your soul

It is your uniqueness 

You are a BEAUTIFUL human. 

Then, as the attendees start to pack and getting ready to depart, I often get one or more of the participants come forward to where I am am packing my bag to depart:: Someone will approach me and say "My son is beautiful" ....... and followed by walking away ............. home bound - sometimes teared-up - sometimes a dropping note on my untidy desk - or scribble on a post-it note "my daughter is beautiful" ................sometimes a whispered 'thank you' ......... etc

For me = the most powerful ...................

Pip BHP

CHANGE will happen when we hurt sufficiently

 

One of my life changing books is back from life long lone

 HOPE RESIDES

where change

is possible

BHP

Love these two - just full on Granddad LOVE

GROWTH ON THE MOTORWAYS

 

I remember composing this

travelling down the M1 spine in the UK.

I had been facilitating business team from the City of London - they were managing big money in International Transactions & I was helping with their team building.

I had a note book between my legs as I drove and, with a lot  thinking, I wrote on the pad without reading/seeing my prose.

The words came slowly .......... but they were completed by the time I arrived at my home base without looking down.

Since then I have never been tempted to change / add to it.

It stands alone for you here.

For your consideration as you transpose it into reality in your context.

✅💲T🅰Y🅱eautiful✅ 

 

Pip BHP

We won the Rugby League Cup at WEMBLY

 YES - I am still flowing with passion from this great result.

St Helens - we won!!

Here we in our full kit on before the match!

I wonder if you can spot me?

I am always saddened when our game doesn't get to spotlight we deserve.

At every level::

Schoolboy

Amateur 

Professional level

Women's Rugby League at all levels

I remember playing the game in the local park when I was about 5 years old.

I have a great passion for the game.

Not so much the Union game - I played for my factory workplace for a few years. I was never the same.

The TV game as major disruption at the moment due to covid.

I major deprivation in my life.

SAD ME

 

RUGBY LEAGUE FAN HERE

 

We can’t believe it’s nearly a week since the fantastic scenes in front of fans in the Wembley sunshine as St Helens lifted the Betfred Challenge Cup for 2021, while Featherstone Rovers were crowned AB Sundecks 1895 Cup winners. You can still relive a fantastic day with match reaction, match reports and highlights.  FINAL REPORT LANCE TODD TROPHY With three Cup Finals now completed, we’d like to say a special thanks for all your support along the way. Still to come is the Betfred Wheelchair Challenge Cup Final between Leeds Rhinos and the Argonauts Skeleton Army on Sunday August 15 which will be shown live on BBC Sport. And keep your eyes peeled for some exciting news soon on the 2022 Men’s Challenge Cup Final...

My important chunk of writing

A this very moment

I am thinking::

How am I feeling.

I am digging into where I am

emotionally

physically

missionary

Writing helps me get things out

where I can study where I am

where I want to go

Where I want to be.

On this day we have

Granddaughters x 2

Yesterday they invaded our flat

FIRST TIME for about 20 weeks!

continued here 

https://www.pipwilson.com/2020/07/writing-helps-me-get-things-out-where-i.html

BHP

WRITING -THAT'S WHAT I DO - IIN A ROUGH STRUGGLE WAYS