MY life has ethos-filters which influence MY language and behaviour that stuff about "you are beautiful" is one of my filters
I suppose I believe that what we believe, hold as principles, have as self-guidelines ...... they are filters when it comes to communication Primary language x 2 - verbal - body
lifestyle attitude - to our own interior - to others - to the community/society we live in - to the comos - the planet we live in - to the eternal significance which we all have some contact with .... behaviour need and greed taker or maker read or don't read view or don't view quantity more-or-less live or don't live dwell or don't dwell tent pitching place - or following betterment of self.
Filters don't change our feelings but they stimulate thought our responses and they do influence the decisions we make when we get signals, that's what feelings are.
(Feelings are neutral - neither good nor bad) they are just real. Training ourselves to be in touch with them and putting them through the filters is what makes the Road Less Travelled beautiful but still beautiful imperfection
These are just some of my filters - offered as a stimulus to you and myself. I am keen to keep my list active because I must be missing some foundational ones.