Fascinating
behaviour.
When we are not relaxed
there is all sorts of distracting stuff
to take us away.
Culture wise ......it is so different ..........
the people I work with can be so erratic
and not stay in a room for long.
I had a session/developmental
as usual - discussion/opening up
informal education you could call it ......
about life skills ..........
I had five in the room
but about 15 were present
in and out or at sometime ......
I have to handle this and want to.
I want to include even though
they exclude themselves ....
yet ......so impressed by the depth of sharing
EVEN when it is so painful to disclose.
I have been using the:-
I'm ok-you're ok stuff ........
I am doing this
with a group of extremely
wounded
hurting
insecure
needy humans
and it may
scratch where you itch too?
LIFE POSITIONS
(think about a difficult relationship
you are experiencing at the moment -
read these four with that relationship
in your mind.)
I am not ok ...... you are not ok
I am not ok........you are ok
I am ok..............you are not ok
I am ok..............you are ok
Which one is you in the relationship?
Be honest - no-one is listening -
where are you right now
feelings?
attitudes towards that one person?
1 2 3 or 4?
......so impressed by the depth of sharing
EVEN when it is so painful to disclose.
.
YOUAREBEAUTIFUL