Tuesday, January 26, 2016

My favourite things - 2015

I have been working on this since December and still can't get all my reflections together.
So here are some of my Fav things!
2015


MY 2015 FAVOURITES::

Album                      * ‘Kiss the World Beautiful’ by Martyn Joseph
Single track              * Forgiven by Jamie Woon
Book                         * 'The Teenage Brain' by Frances E Jensen
Blog                          * LOVE has no off switch http://www.pipwilson.com/search?q=+love+has+no+off+switch
Web-site                   * www.blobtree.com The Home of Blob Tree Materials.
Journey                    * Home to MrsBeautiful - always a treat.
Gift                           * Soundbar to listen to music and great sound for TV.
Gig Training              * Lambeth CRUSE - with Bereavement Counsellors 

Gig                            * Rolling Magazine in Alesund Norway in February with my friend Torgrim Grimstad
Joke                         * Two Cannibals were eating a Clown and one said to the other “Does this taste funny to you?"
Software                  * 'Get iPlayer Automator' Captures 50 hours a week of Radio DJ music which I soak into my soul.

Buy                          * New iPhone after 3 years with the old ‘dying battery’ one.
Blob Tool                  * 'Blob Upstream' which gets people considering the past and impact downstream= NOW

Drink                        * Mint Tea.
Learning                  * Every 121 opportunity, every Training workshop I facilitate - I am stretched in preparation AND delivery.
Blessing                  * A new Grandaughter Nell - a little sister for Connie and a BLESSING for us all.
DJ                           * Gilles Peterson - continued to feed my soul with music - fresh and always new adventuring.
Radio Station          * BBC Radio6Music
Publication              * The YMCA TOOLBOX Book bespoke for the world wide Y -  http://www.blobtree.com/pages/featured-blobs

Festival experience * Missing Greenbelt Festival for the first time in 38 years.
TV Series                * ‘The Bridge’ - I love the Beautiful Imperfection of the lead ‘Saga’ - so full of feelings.
Injustice                  * The occupation of Palestine by Israel and the daily misuse of power/destroying ancient family homes.
Pipstagram              * The large celebrity in my life:: Conniepops age 6 in February forthcoming.

Event                       * Must be our 51st Wedding Anniversary back in October - and we are still going strong!
Cafe                         * Timberyard Cafe, Seven Dials Covent Garden, London - Love it Love it!

Restaurant               * Da Mario Italian, Covent Garden, London - forever my favourite in the WORLD !
Partnership              * Ian Long - Artiste & Beautiful Human with www.BlobTree.com -  great to work creatively with him.

Pipturesque             * Both my beautiful Grandaughters http://www.pipwilson.com/2015/12/my-our-joy-to-world-at-christmas.html







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Blob Tree doing it's stuff - opening every human heart.


Pip Wilson - Trainer - Group Worker - Facilitator - Youth Work / Informal Educator

Don't confuse caring for weakness



But don't confuse caring for weakness 
You can't put that label on me 
The truth is my weapon of mass protection 
And I believe truth sets you free 

- from Willie Nelson's song, 
'What Ever Happened To Peace On Earth'.



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Found this old Mayflower Youth Work leaflet last night.


Monday, January 25, 2016

The Blob Shop for LOADS of Blob Tree Materials - DOWNLOADS



Visit the Blob Shop





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RAPUNZEL #YouAreBeautiful - becoming





RAPUNZEL 

The story of a young woman. 
Young and beautiful. 
Imprisoned in a tower with an old witch. 

She was told by the old witch 
that she was ugly - all the time. 

One day Rapunzel 
was gazing through the window 
of the tower 
and she saw her Prince Charming 
at the base of the tower. 

She lets down her long hair, 
long and beautiful tresses. 
It fell to the ground alongside the Prince 
who braids it into a ladder and climbs up to rescue her. 

She was imprisoned not by the tower 
but by the fear of her own ugliness 
which the witch had described so often. 

Rapunzel sees the reflection of her face 
in the mirroring eyes of her lover. 

She sees that she is beautiful and 
becomes free from her imagined uglyness. 

She was not really imprisoned 
but locked in the prison tower of herself. 
She believed she was ugly 
because she was told she was ugly.

We need to see in another’s eyes 
our own beauty, special ness, uniqueness 
and become free. 

You are a beautiful human person


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Sunday, January 24, 2016

Reflection to a group - the day after the earth moved = Group Work.





This is a letter I have created ……..
......... to special people. 

Dear name 
Thanx for your giving to the group last night. 
I am aware that it was a bit like having a real 
vivid honest discussion on a moving staircase. 
So I appreciate your efforts all the more. 

There was fantastic sharing going on – 
even amongst the walking in and out of other people. 
The reason why I encourage this sort of sharing 
is to touch real feelings and 
when we do that we are more accepting of the reality – 
the real depth of our feelings. 
I believe that, 
if we are honest with these feelings, 
we can move on from that base of honesty 
to a better life. 

All of us have gone through stuff in our lives 
which have left scars. 
What I am aiming for is to help the group 
to create a good vibe which then, 
the group itself, 
becomes a helping environment. 
It only works if people are honest 
and you were last night. 

So ……
……… I write with appreciation 
and an encouragement to press on. 

We can be like an octopus 
which squirts out a cloud to cover up 
the fears and threats, 
wanting to 'cloud out' from view 
the real threats. 

Last night you faced the real 
and that makes us stronger 
as individuals and 
as a group ……. 
It seems to me. 

PipBHP



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Saturday, January 23, 2016

Resilience - get it!



RESILIENCE

WHAT MAKES RESILIENCE ?

1 ABILITY to grow stronger through experiencing difficulty - reforming as learning experience.

2 Expanding to a wide range of skills and  tools for different challenges.

3 FLEXIBILITY - switch between  styles to find best

4 ABILITY to Bounce back
with VISION / PURPOSE / VALUES as guiding principles.

5 SELF AWARENESS = Self Observation
ABILITY Giving and receiving FEEDBACK 
INNER STRENGTH
FLEXIBLE /FIRMLY ROOTED.          



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