My relationship with my father has made it impossible for me to trust men
My dad was a difficult and unfaithful man and now I fear that all other men will be the same. What can I do to get over this?
I have a severe distrust of men, stemming most likely from an emotionally fraught and conditional relationship with my father, who was an unfaithful and bad-tempered man.
This distrust has now affected my ability to believe that my partner loves me and had placed itself in the middle of my relationship.
I recently found some porn on my boyfriend's phone and felt immediately inferior, jealous, disgusted, not good enough, ugly and repulsed.
How do I learn to believe that some men are actually trustworthy?