Saturday, December 25, 2021

Wishes from Wilson Mansions

Wishing everyone a Merry Christmas and a Happy, Peaceful and Healthy New Year xx
Joan & Pip

Monday, December 20, 2021

I apologise for my poor responses back to you - some over months.

My cancer is working on many things. 
My responses back to so many BHP’s who have offered help  & I have gone quiet due to my
Memory loss
Many more - leaving me unable to function. 

On top of all these - and more - I have my iPhone /desktop /Mac / laptop in a mess with me not able to respond to password & Apple ID requests leaving me isolated feeling isolated. 

So I am a limping friend of yours - not able to communicate to even hhelp myself 


Friday, December 17, 2021

This MONSTER is coming to stay over Christmas !!

He has stayed once before and, apart from him being a wrecking ball he left me scratches to show who is boss!

Sunday, December 12, 2021

This is a Christmas story ........ real so real ...
I am sharing about when I was working in a London Hostels with teens and twenties. This event - I will never forget. Context = A late night gathering of BHP's who have lived lives NOT like ours. ( maybe your life has been experienced similar to them?)
I quoted my starting my group-work activity::
I started by giving each member of the group a little Christmas tree the size if a 5 pence coin 

Then I asked what feelings they had - 
when seeing these these little Christmas Trees. 
As usual, many had difficulty to contact & articulate how they feel. 
Out-spilled words like 
'I hate Christmas', 
'I don't like Christmas', 
'I have no money to buy, not even, one present.'
I have worked/led 5 different residential communities in my life -  with youngsters who lived with their seasonal reflection                             "I hate Christmas".
On top of this I have spent years travelling to different towns and cities conducting group work with young torn-apart lives. Some rejected - all of the dejected.
I remember near Christmas ............ sitting with a group of three after our evening meal in the YMCA. I asked them a question - a BECOMING question. = 'If I gave you £10 to spend - what would you do with it?'
Heads dropped. Thinking time ...... then the first to speak said "I would buy a Christmas present for my Nan"    The second one spoke after a long pause:: "I would go out and buy some boots or trainers because the only ones I have are full of holes and my feet get totally sodden in the cold wet weather" .................................. The Third guy paused somewhat longer ( I filling up with tears as I type these words for you - as I remember ) ....................................Then he spoke, head bowed, no eye contact    "I wouldn't take the money. I have never had so much money and I don't know what I could do with it"

*Everyone we meet is fighting a battle we know nothing about*  Whatever their behaviour - trust that they are doing their best - it costs nothing if we are wrong but benefits count massively if we are right ........... this act is called 'Love'.
Yesterday I posted that you/me -  everyone  having a 'UPSTREAM' ............ often never revealed to ANYONE.
YET the experiences live on in the memory (in our gut) of the beautiful human - in pain especially at Christmas ..........
I always say - it is vital to let it out. SPILL. If you cannot share with a person you trust - at least write out all your feelings & experiences. EVEN if no-one ever reads your words. You can destroy your written experiences if you wish because the main release it that very act of writing it letting it out. 


Friday, December 10, 2021

Have a soul search here::

Write a feeling word alongside each Blob Bauble 

With another person share your word with & express your feelings why you have chosen this one & then ask another to do the same self disclosure - do this with a few other humans. 

Your openness will enhance your relationship and for me - this is most  πŸ…±πŸ…΄πŸ…°πŸ†„πŸ†ƒπŸ…ΈπŸ…΅πŸ†„πŸ…»  


Blob Christmas Tree. Which one is you? Which one do you want to be?

Thursday, December 09, 2021

Sunday, December 05, 2021

These cards are so popular & many more

Boxes to meet different needs. 
Powerful in schools & with teachers & life couches etc. 


Saturday, December 04, 2021

Search for my books here

These just a sample of book for you to order as a download others available in paperback. 

Thanking you for

Pip BHP 

Thursday, December 02, 2021

When I’m weak I draw strength from you 🎼

I believe In beautiful you

I can only express /. communicate such a little love. 

I ache to love

To the max


Wednesday, December 01, 2021

I am weak

Can anyone rescue me?
I have a desktop /iPhone / laptop all in a mess
Because of my condition / health / side affects of cancer - I can’t function well enough. 

Anyone out there who can come & visit me & sort me out?


Blob World - opening humans like flowers to the sun.

Saturday, November 27, 2021

When we had a dog/car/& a family of 15 boys

Yes we loved & worked residentially in Cheshire with beautiful special unique full of life Manchester teenagers. 

One year exactly from getting wed - we sold our first home -  I left factory life, mechanical engineer with Pilkington Glass in my home town …… for a lifetime of adventures. 
Scars and all. 

Eternally grateful to to all I worked alongside. 
πŸ…±πŸ…΄πŸ…°πŸ†„πŸ†ƒπŸ…ΈπŸ…΅πŸ†„πŸ…» πŸ…·πŸ†„πŸ…ΌπŸ…°πŸ…½πŸ†‚ 
The lot. 

Read. My books. 
A search will reveal many. Web or my website. 


Thanking you deeply. 

Massive memories from Norway.

Thursday, November 18, 2021

How one of the Blobs can open a slammed shut heart

A row of Blobs are just nothing special until each group member is asked to place themselves ( self disclosure) before a team or strangers . …….. about feelings / personal development / empathy with others. 
Opening every locked in heart. 
Good for self. 
Great for BECOMING all we want to be. 

Tuesday, November 16, 2021

Are you a PALM PERSON ?

A palm person speaks with open palms not pointed fingers. The communication syncs together in a unplanned way. The voice & tone also join in = warm & soft not hard. Not using the word. SHOULD !




Sunday, November 07, 2021

Moods are one thing Self awareness another

A forever journey of reflection- of understanding. 
Daily recap needed. More often - to keep in touch in our becoming. 
Pen to pad in this fast moving life if working with or alongside others. 
Feel it - dig into it. Not needed to drag us under or distract but maybe saved for bedtime or a full release onto your private notepad. 
There is learning this way. 
About this another & most def about SELF


When it’s cold & fatigue enters our life

Friday, November 05, 2021



I have had a journey through my emotions and often have experienced bad outcomes

 Like you, I believe, I have had a journey through my emotions and often have experienced bad outcomes. Times past me by and time has given me time to reflect one my reaction to a comment or the Behaviour of another.

Time gives an opportunity to become reflective and leaved me wishing for a better outcome. Time can be learning time - 'I wish time' is all about knowing we could have spoken or behaved much better.

Even with our most loved/most respected we have cocked up.

I don't know yet how much I need to learn but I want to accept all feeling stirred within me - NOT bury them deep within myself -  I need to reflect and learn from self and others. Emotion Detective - that's me.

Never ending journey - about the inner Pip and inner you. Strive to understand my inner working and the inner being of others. A never ending journey.

I must learn more but I don't know how much to learn until I get it wrong - or when I sense I am getting nearly right - or better.

That is why I write a lot. Reflective time - sometimes on a blog or more personal/hidden away.

I have published a number of books which describe my journey - into my becoming all I want to become.