Saturday, December 25, 2021

Wishes from Wilson Mansions

Wishing everyone a Merry Christmas and a Happy, Peaceful and Healthy New Year xx
Joan & Pip

Monday, December 20, 2021

I apologise for my poor responses back to you - some over months.




My cancer is working on many things. 
My responses back to so many BHP’s who have offered help  & I have gone quiet due to my
Weakness 
Fatigue 
Concentration 
Memory loss
Confusion 
Many more - leaving me unable to function. 

On top of all these - and more - I have my iPhone /desktop /Mac / laptop in a mess with me not able to respond to password & Apple ID requests leaving me isolated feeling isolated. 

So I am a limping friend of yours - not able to communicate to even hhelp myself 

✅πŸ’²TπŸ…°YπŸ…±eautiful✅ 

Friday, December 17, 2021

This MONSTER is coming to stay over Christmas !!




He has stayed once before and, apart from him being a wrecking ball he left me scratches to show who is boss!

Sunday, December 12, 2021




This is a Christmas story ........ real so real ...
I am sharing about when I was working in a London Hostels with teens and twenties. This event - I will never forget. Context = A late night gathering of BHP's who have lived lives NOT like ours. ( maybe your life has been experienced similar to them?)
I quoted my starting my group-work activity::
I started by giving each member of the group a little Christmas tree the size if a 5 pence coin 

Then I asked what feelings they had - 
when seeing these these little Christmas Trees. 
As usual, many had difficulty to contact & articulate how they feel. 
Out-spilled words like 
'I hate Christmas', 
'I don't like Christmas', 
'I have no money to buy, not even, one present.'
*
I have worked/led 5 different residential communities in my life -  with youngsters who lived with their seasonal reflection                             "I hate Christmas".
On top of this I have spent years travelling to different towns and cities conducting group work with young torn-apart lives. Some rejected - all of the dejected.
I remember near Christmas ............ sitting with a group of three after our evening meal in the YMCA. I asked them a question - a BECOMING question. = 'If I gave you £10 to spend - what would you do with it?'
Heads dropped. Thinking time ...... then the first to speak said "I would buy a Christmas present for my Nan"    The second one spoke after a long pause:: "I would go out and buy some boots or trainers because the only ones I have are full of holes and my feet get totally sodden in the cold wet weather" .................................. The Third guy paused somewhat longer ( I filling up with tears as I type these words for you - as I remember ) ....................................Then he spoke, head bowed, no eye contact    "I wouldn't take the money. I have never had so much money and I don't know what I could do with it"
!!!!!!!!!!

*Everyone we meet is fighting a battle we know nothing about*  Whatever their behaviour - trust that they are doing their best - it costs nothing if we are wrong but benefits count massively if we are right ........... this act is called 'Love'.
Yesterday I posted that you/me -  everyone  having a 'UPSTREAM' ............ often never revealed to ANYONE.
EVERYONE HAS AN UPSTREAM
YET the experiences live on in the memory (in our gut) of the beautiful human - in pain especially at Christmas ..........
I always say - it is vital to let it out. SPILL. If you cannot share with a person you trust - at least write out all your feelings & experiences. EVEN if no-one ever reads your words. You can destroy your written experiences if you wish because the main release it that very act of writing it letting it out. 

α–»α“α‘˜α—©α–‡α˜Ώα—·α˜Ώα—©α‘˜α–Άα“°α–΄α‘˜α’ͺ

Friday, December 10, 2021

Have a soul search here::




Write a feeling word alongside each Blob Bauble 


With another person share your word with & express your feelings why you have chosen this one & then ask another to do the same self disclosure - do this with a few other humans. 

Your openness will enhance your relationship and for me - this is most  πŸ…±πŸ…΄πŸ…°πŸ†„πŸ†ƒπŸ…ΈπŸ…΅πŸ†„πŸ…»  


BHP 

Blob Christmas Tree. Which one is you? Which one do you want to be?



Thursday, December 09, 2021

Sunday, December 05, 2021

These cards are so popular & many more



Boxes to meet different needs. 
Powerful in schools & with teachers & life couches etc. 

Pip&pipwilson.com


Saturday, December 04, 2021

Search for my books here




These just a sample of book for you to order as a download others available in paperback. 


Thanking you for
You


Pip BHP 

Thursday, December 02, 2021

When I’m weak I draw strength from you 🎼










I believe In beautiful you

I can only express /. communicate such a little love. 

I ache to love

To the max

BHP 

Wednesday, December 01, 2021

I am weak

Can anyone rescue me?
I have a desktop /iPhone / laptop all in a mess
And
Because of my condition / health / side affects of cancer - I can’t function well enough. 

Anyone out there who can come & visit me & sort me out?

Pip BHP 
Pip@pipwilson.com

Blob World - opening humans like flowers to the sun.



Saturday, November 27, 2021

When we had a dog/car/& a family of 15 boys


Yes we loved & worked residentially in Cheshire with beautiful special unique full of life Manchester teenagers. 

One year exactly from getting wed - we sold our first home -  I left factory life, mechanical engineer with Pilkington Glass in my home town …… for a lifetime of adventures. 
Scars and all. 

Eternally grateful to to all I worked alongside. 
πŸ…±πŸ…΄πŸ…°πŸ†„πŸ†ƒπŸ…ΈπŸ…΅πŸ†„πŸ…» πŸ…·πŸ†„πŸ…ΌπŸ…°πŸ…½πŸ†‚ 
The lot. 

Read. My books. 
A search will reveal many. Web or my website. 


Pip&pipwilson.com 

Thanking you deeply. 

Massive memories from Norway.



Thursday, November 18, 2021

How one of the Blobs can open a slammed shut heart




A row of Blobs are just nothing special until each group member is asked to place themselves ( self disclosure) before a team or strangers . …….. about feelings / personal development / empathy with others. 
Opening every locked in heart. 
Good for self. 
Great for BECOMING all we want to be. 

www.pipwilson.com 

Tuesday, November 16, 2021

Are you a PALM PERSON ?





A palm person speaks with open palms not pointed fingers. The communication syncs together in a unplanned way. The voice & tone also join in = warm & soft not hard. Not using the word. SHOULD !

L⃣o⃣v⃣i⃣n⃣g⃣y⃣o⃣u⃣ 

#YouAreBeautiful 

BHP 

Sunday, November 07, 2021

Moods are one thing Self awareness another



A forever journey of reflection- of understanding. 
Daily recap needed. More often - to keep in touch in our becoming. 
Pen to pad in this fast moving life if working with or alongside others. 
Feel it - dig into it. Not needed to drag us under or distract but maybe saved for bedtime or a full release onto your private notepad. 
There is learning this way. 
About this another & most def about SELF

α–»α“α‘˜α—©α–‡α˜Ώα—·α˜Ώα—©α‘˜α–Άα“°α–΄α‘˜α’ͺ 

When it’s cold & fatigue enters our life



Friday, November 05, 2021

CHILDREN'S HUMAN RIGHTS


 

I have had a journey through my emotions and often have experienced bad outcomes


 Like you, I believe, I have had a journey through my emotions and often have experienced bad outcomes. Times past me by and time has given me time to reflect one my reaction to a comment or the Behaviour of another.

Time gives an opportunity to become reflective and leaved me wishing for a better outcome. Time can be learning time - 'I wish time' is all about knowing we could have spoken or behaved much better.

Even with our most loved/most respected we have cocked up.

I don't know yet how much I need to learn but I want to accept all feeling stirred within me - NOT bury them deep within myself -  I need to reflect and learn from self and others. Emotion Detective - that's me.

Never ending journey - about the inner Pip and inner you. Strive to understand my inner working and the inner being of others. A never ending journey.

I must learn more but I don't know how much to learn until I get it wrong - or when I sense I am getting nearly right - or better.

That is why I write a lot. Reflective time - sometimes on a blog or more personal/hidden away.

I have published a number of books which describe my journey - into my becoming all I want to become.


Pip BHP