Friday, December 04, 2020

FEELING my age and for those alone - isolated ................


 We went shopping today.

It's been a long time coming.

Me still not entering shops - I am a risk - so avoiding scrums !

Massive amount of over 80's BHP's slowly shopping.

I am 81 but methinks I will be bottom on a jab long list from what I see.

Feel big time for so many aged BHP's especially lots living alone - I am so fortunate not to be.

Sending much deep love to anyone living alone or FEELING alone - you are special precious & unique. Make sure you talk with at least one person about your feelings - it is so NOT OK to keep them trapped inside doing deep damage.




(If you are not elderly/slow to move around - please spend some time with anyone you meet who you can tell that they want to chat longer than maybe you need to.)



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Thursday, December 03, 2020

This is 'Developmental Group-Work' in a London HOSTEL with a Christmas theme.





Here is a Christmas story.
It's a description of a piece of Group Work.
Me working with late teens/early twenties
all living in a homeless Hostel
all being supported during tough time in their lives.
Maybe you can take this and transpose it
into your own context?

*

................I started by giving each member of the group 
a little Christmas tree the size if a 5 pence coin.
Then I asked what feelings they had - seeing - feeling this.
As usual, many have difficulty to contact how they feel.
Out-slipped words like
'I hate Christmas',
'I don't like Christmas',
I have no money to buy,
not even, one present.

I then sensitively moved to asking them who the main human characters were
in the Christmas story.
The first word uttered was 'Santa'.
Soon after there was a list of eight mentioned
(- come on - you can do this as I tell you about
this group work experience !)

Their names/descriptions went into a hat, 
Jesus went into the hat too.
Each human then drew one out and
I went around the circle asking how they thought
that their character 'felt' - a feelings question.

Here are some stand-out feelings;
Mary - stressed
Joseph - scared/worried
Innkeeper - guilty
King - good-to-give
Shepherd - in awe
Angel - 'yes'  ! - sorted!

Three humans in the story were noted as having negative feelings 
and they were the main focus of the whole affair - as responsible adults.
The rich - feeling good to give,
not just receiving.
The tough rough/simple life style shepherds
- awe - overwhelmed.
The last one was a dead pleased Angel
who really knew that this was pretty good news ....
....... "YESSSSSSS"

Why do this?
Why did I do this in a group of humans?
1 I am on a journey to cultivate in myself, and others, an increasing ability to be able to get into contact my/their own feelings.
2 Looking at others and empathising is a learning process into sensitivity.
3 Articulating those feelings is a process of 'owning' such powerful things as feelings.
4 A human identification with a powerful historical spiritual human story.
5 Reality at Christmas - to escape the tinsel for some small moments ....
.... and it was stinking good .........

Why not try it on humans around you?
Adapt - of course.
Transpose the idea to your own context.
You never know, they may be pleased to talk 'real'
midst the rest of the Christmas slippery slope.

I am 'being’ & ‘becoming’ with this group
during the session,
humans who are this - amongst other things;
Visibly self harming
Severely depressed
Lost and uncertain
Lonely and afraid
No place like home to go at Christmas
Refugee
Deep feelings and disturbed
(the last one is me and I want to be disturbed!)


Thanx for clicking this way.
I will tell you straight -
I take value from you doing this.

and



I
want
to
comfort
the
disturbed
and
disturb
the
comfortable


BHP


I am feeling with humans - on the edge + the LOSS of a loved one


 

Wednesday, December 02, 2020

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‘I don’t like this parson’ 
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A #decision to love. 
Seeing beyond #behaviour. 
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... to love that person. 

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Tuesday, December 01, 2020

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