The world is a dangerous place to live;
not because of the people who are evil,
but because of the people who don't do anything about it.

- Albert Einstein

BLOB TREE CD-R
(click-d-pic-to-enlarge)

... only obtainable from me.
Just out.
Limited to 4 month period.
Contracted the rights out after that.
Click this way.
Buy one for Christmas!
A present for your friend
or enemy?

Busy at the mo
and it is hotting up through to a quieter spell during the last two weeks in December.
In the middle of that I will have to take a week off to get my eye drilled out and a new tear duct fitted - it is important to cry you know!
Working Finland after that.
Want to work in Norway again but nobody invites me :-(

Love the Ginger organic biscuits from S or WR Supermarkets
- great with a milky coffee.
Listening to BenjiB at the mo - my 2nd fav DJ.
Stayed up till 2.30 last night. Music - Reading hmmm
Liked the Cointeau and cigar too. (Only one of each!)
Love it
Hate mornings
Had kippers for lunch - loveem
got so much reading, work related papers, to read
these stubby fingers are terrible to write with
wish I could type
Missed going to the gym today
Another thing not so good
- find myself coming home from work in the dark already!

Dark - not the only option - we can walk towards the light!
"We got to kick the darkness 'till it bleeds daylight"

Great blog from big john last night
he said so many positive things about me - I blush
Saints play Leeds tomorrow - a big game and they are so strong - and big boys

Do you FEEL beautiful right now?
Do you ever feel beautiful?
Let me know
I ask humans who I meet so I want to ask you? eh?

Did you do the 'finger tip on the computer screen' yesterday?
I did a a few times when I re-read the blog.
And again now
I have feelings when I do that!

I don't feel beautiful much - a glimmer sometimes BUT
I believe I am
Our life has ethos-filters which influence our language and behaviour
that stuff about
"you are beautiful"
is one of my filters
Must do a propa blog about the filters thing
vital stuff - seems to me
I have a spidergram about my filters ........

All the above is a mere chink of the human called pip wilson
hanging out is best
late night
for hours
is best
like to do that with you sometime .......

you are beautiful ..........


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I have just sent out my eNewsletter for September to about 3500 souls on my list .....

... I have more like you, I guess, who are blogfriends or in my address book. If you did not get it you can go to my 'home' and register for a free subscription ...... but you will have missed this one so drop me a mail if you would like a special delivery.. .. ....


.... reach out and press your finger tip on your screen as I am NOW

..... and we just touched unique fingertips - beautiful ..........



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Pimp My Ride UK
is back with season 3 this Sunday the 10th of September.

More crazy blingtastic modifications.

I am not sure if our Sheilas production will be shown this week ....... but just click that way and boost the figures. It is the biggest ever MTV viewed programme

I was at the Greenbelt Festival last week and I heard a beep from a passing Land Rover. I was talking with beautiful humans Jackie and Bex.
The Land Rover was all decorated with the word 'Fire'.
Big and Butch!
It was one of the Fire Engines for the Festival.

The driver reached out his hand as I approached and introduced himself. He told me his name, forget it already - stink! and said thank you to me for my first book - published some twenty years ago. He said that the chapter on 'Emotional Deprivation' was significant to him and his work as a Youth Worker.

When I worked with Street Gangs in East London - the most violent and professional criminals you could meet, I had concluded that these beautiful humans were strong and skilled in many ways - but lacked any depth in emotional security. Often relationships and behaviour displayed a deeper need that rich takings from robbery and criminality did not satisfy.

So my mission included an objective to assist the development of each human person to enable them to have more skills in their toolbox and therefore be able to make steps to a more whole lifestyle. Ten or twenty years in prison did not assist in a persons growth very much!

The big development need, I concluded, was the ability/skill to manage their emotions and therefore their lives generally. Some times, a decade later, this is referred to as 'Emotional Intelligence'.

It is a need we all have in the street, the office, our family life and indeed right here right now.

All this is an intro into a course I am about to lead at London Central YMCA - right in the heart of London town. Call in a see if you can sign up for it - if you hang out near there.Will you consider?

The course is called::
'The Road Less Travelled'
……………………………. About assertiveness, listening, feelings, skills, awareness, life management and general human development - and don't we all need it?

I have been leading this course for 15 years or more. In several YMCA's and out in the Community. Always different because it is about the humans present.
It is great and satisfying. It is also only 6 hours spread over three session - two hours a week.

Will you consider joining a course like this? If not - ask yourself 'why'.

Have a think, especially if you don't want to.


Cheers - thanx for reading my stubby finger clicks .........


"Growth does not reside in a place called comfortable"

.... when we are communicating ......

... it is good to use the word,
the pronoun,
' I '
liberally.

Talking about
'Your' experiences ....
'Your' thoughts .....
'Your' vulnerabilities ....

This means we are communicating towards
'Level Five' .......
This kind of communication is demanding ....
It demands that we are in touch with our
interior self and striving to be honest ....

Starting a sentence with 'You'
is usually aggressive, oppressive or a 'put down' ...

Sticks and stones can break bones but words can do much more harm .....


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LEVEL
FIVE
COMMUNICATION

I left Greenbelt a week ago today ......

..... and Big John sent me this email one day after ...
so beautiful
so appreciative
me .....




It is the wee hours of wednesday, and i am alone....
I am missing the great company and level 3 - 5 conversations of the great and the good, and the imperfect beautiful people that I have shared these past 5 nights.

thankyou for sharing the level 5 meaning, and teaching me what beautiful imperfection really means.

We are home safe, after nightmare 9 hour journey home due to road closures and satnav crappiness and a wee dunch in the back of our car by some very beautiful imperfect, impatient driver at a junction.
We are ok, tired and feet-=sore. legs worn out.

soul injected.

i am about to blog.

i am looking around for ken, for the daves, for steve, bonny, ross, - for gordon, paul, andy, frank and for pip.

They, you, all are inhabiting in my aura

we will communicate soon, tomorrow the 'outside' world will kick in no doubt.

I hope this sweet sorrow that is always in the parting, never leaves.

your good friend

bigjohn

love and thanks to joan too, from me and grace and jules for your love and present...... and joyful friendship



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..... keep his blog as one to dip into
a great human ............... click here
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This a part of one of the many Blob Tools which I use with groups of humans. You can get the Blob Tree and 50+ other only from me.
This one is called::

Blob
Roller
Coaster

Questions::

(be honest with yourself)
1 Which one is you right now?
2 Why?



The honest questioning of our interior self provides a base for going forward in life ......

.... and as we consumed Champagne the model of the day strolled around and stopped with several poses ....

.... a beautiful non-human ...