Got a couple of putdowns.
Usually they are statements which start with
the word "you......".
"...................... you make me angry .................... "
It is usually finger pointing word like
'should' and 'aught'
We can't blame another when we feel angry.
They are our feelings.
Someone may trigger feelings but
feelings are our own responsibility.
'should' and 'aught'
I never use those two words on principle.
Also there are people who are warm and
I want them to develop.
I yearn that they can be warm with others
of differing natures and personalities.
To 'love the lovely' is great.
To love the unlovely is a real challenge
to all of us in our development.... hmmmmm .....
I notice the humans I warm to easily,
and others not as easy.
So principles kick in here.
I am off.
Values decide to love not hate
because love does a better job.
So our brain takes over our feelings
if we allow it to.
If we TRAIN it to.
Our feelings struggle to keep up with our mind,
the 500 words a minute mind ....
.. but I love wins every time........
-wish-you-wonder-
BHP
