Monday, April 28, 2008

Hey ...... I am sipping Cointreau and clicking my best before entering the zedz zone.

Got my new spex.
had a great chat with the woman serving me. We hit it off. I told her she was beautiful.
I asked if she had children.
If she loved them.
If she loved them with her face - not just words.
(Communication is 55% facial expression)
I gave her a quote from Eric Berne, eminent psychiatrist, who said that from an early age, 2 or 3, children make decisions about themselves and the world they live in, based on the messages they receive from parents or other caretakers.
They make decisions then - then work them out in the rest of their lives.


My bit now - it is a learning process which does not enter the head, cognitive, it is soaked into the sponge of their whole being ...... they become that sort of human - the sort that they have been taught/modelled by these adults.
Unless they break free .......
Unless we break free ............

And as I left the Opticians, a few hundred quid lighter, I left her with a head full of thoughts and a little sticker saying .........
you are beautiful.

Met with Emma afterwards and we had a great catchup.
What a beautiful L5 human.
We talked and talked, flowed and flowed and
had some food too ........ loveit.
Talked about the above too.
And with Eva - our beautiful waitress - ever such a passionate human.
and .......... I didn't have sticker on me, in Spanish for her, which says ...........
you are beautiful.

A consideration for you::
'How to Look Good Naked' presenter Gok Wan

(Why not watch Channel 4:: tomorrow and see him at 8pm - a Wilson Production - in LOOK GOOD NAKED?)

He is also doing a new programme:: a weekly studio-based fashion show for Channel 4 as part of its spring/summer season.

In each edition of the show, developed under the working title Gok's Clothes Show, the host will show the audience how to adopt the latest fashion trend on both a small and a big budget.

Gok will lead a team flying the flag for the high street, taking on a designer-led team in a battle to win the audience's vote on which clothes they would wear.

The show will also offer glimpse into celebrities' wardrobes – including the chance to win a famous item of clothing - and goes behind the scenes in the world of haute couture, fashion parties and catwalk shows.


Joan is back home - will not see her much until we set off for France on Wednesday morning and then we will talk talk talk all along the autoroutes ......... with Gilles Peterson as company hey hey.



I must pass on a message to you::

you are beautiful