I always want to show the pix of those special humans who I have spent time with and I think they are pleased .......

"I don't believe in charity.

I believe in solidarity.

Charity is so vertical.

It goes from the top to the bottom.

Solidarity is horizontal.

It respects the other person and learns from the other.

Most of us have a lot to learn from other people."

Eduardo Galeano

...... been in Burton-Upon-Trent today.
Another 5 am start.
Don't mind
rather be early than rushing
like to be early and set up for the gig in good time.
Getting out of London and through the M1 jams is slow but better than later.

Was a day with a group of Trustees and Senior Staff.
Vision Mission Values - Strategic Management stuff, and I love it.
Love the humans
the buzz
the interactions
the passion.

Sorry I have been off-line.
I always want to reflect and yearn in this place.

Got a text off Big John today
saying I was exceedingly beautiful
I receive that with warmth
I know he means it

Had a Text today from my friend Torgrim in Norway
asking how I was feeling
I was driving
I guess 'feeling' as well
something like being apprehensive in a focusing sort of way
It is it not very beautiful that he cares?

Will be answering those tomorrow.

Someone said to me today
that of all his years in Management
the session I led today was the best he has experienced
I thanked him for the trouble he took to say it
maybe 99% of others thought I was rubbish
(just a joke - )
I don't believe I am ever rubbish
But sometimes I know when sessions have not met my expectations
and I sense the disappointment in others sometimes
but not today.

Few humans give deliberate honest feedback in life and work
Guess that is true for you?
As I clicked yesterday
an interaction from one human to another is always felt as a negative one
unless it is clear it is a genuine positive/affirmation.
7% of any communication is words
the rest is the
eyes
expression
lips
body language
tone
human warmth.

Who did you give human warmth to today?
Who did you help to feel 'of value' today?
Someone who served that coffee to you?
The human behind the till?

I send you some human warmth tonight
as my finger tips touch these keys
my finger tips are reaching out - to your unique finger tips
we can touch in web space
and feels good
thanx for clicking this way
may the 'interior you' have an eternal warm glowing fire
and make sure the fireplace is ok too!!


zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzx

Must have been thousands of interactions in your life - my life today.

Ony 7% of them would be words - they say.
(Famous person that
'they' person
- eh?)

Some of the best interactions are the smiling eyes.
Shining eyes looking at someone, however brief, can be the most beautiful thing.

Which humans have you smiled at with your eyes today?
It could be a small child at play - and we join in by a simple 'smiling eye' in that direction - or one to the parent.
It could be someone at our workplace
...... an eye can be the most power-full recognition tool in the toolbox.
It could be someone selling us a magazine - or a pear - or a ticket?
It could be someone who is in need
maybe not pleasant to look upon - but most in need of a smiling eye .....

If a transaction
an interaction
if not clearly positive
it is received as a negative transaction.

I feel them many times in a day
a back of a person
a face turned away
"hello" but slightly clipped - just a wee bit lacking in any emotion
and the person stayed turned away - turned away
loveloveloveloveyouallthesameallthesame .....


I need to go to bed zedz

Will be back tomorrow


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.... would love to tell you about today and the day before and the week before but somethings are not possible.

I will take the risks in telling you about my 'insider news' but I cannot say much about others.

The week has slipped through my fingers like sand .......... and I just missed Thursday ......

I have not even had the chance to read othe blogs I click to every night - NIGHT!! - missed them too.

Had a great day today
full stretch
give all
beautiful
to - see - hear - breath - feel
real humans
real communication
gripping the nettles of life
hurting a bit to do it
but worth it
it was safe
it was a place to
be
and
become
this stretching
safe secure and that is why it was possible

Humans grow and develop when there is ::
Love
Security
New Experiences
Participation

......... and we can make that happen in our own lives too
It is not just something we do for other humans .............


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