so many times on ...
BIG BROTHER ....
... there are humans in the diary room and Big Brother asks them how they are feeling ...... and they say what they are thinking ......
So often the people who I meet are disturbed by feelings, which are the major factor influencing behaviour, and yet they struggle to make contact with their feelings.
Make contact with their own feelings.
Their own interior.
Their own soul.
It is only when we start on that journey of interior self discovery - that we start toching our own feelings.
Then we can start to understand them.
'Where' they come from.
The triggers to our words and behaviour.
See ourselves and the bits we don't like.
and 'Know' the human person who you will be spending the rest of life with!
Some humans are full of fear at the thought of entering into that scary place.
The Interior self.
Often it is an ugly place - disturbing the comfortable exterior human.
Keep the mask on - keep the mask on hide hide hide hide ....... if it is ugly for me - it will be for others and I need to keep up the 'front' - the mask.
The truth is ..................
You are beautiful
you are beautiful .............
and from that understanding - we can have a peek inside and manage the process - the journey because you know you are loved.
(If you have trouble with this last bit - I love you and I will always be open and confidential with you - try not to let you down (I never say 'never because I am beautiful AND imperfect like you).
So - if you don't have that eternal lover fixed in your soul - confidence - self worth ........... how about me as a stand-in?
I am human and stumbling ....... but I am here for a season!
But if you know you are loved - you can enter into the darker side of you - pull down the mask - eyes wide open - deep breaths - 'own' the imperfect within your whole ......... because you know you are loved.
The greatest human person to get to know .....
Is Yourself ...........
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