Some behaviourfrom
some people
is difficult, unpleasant, off-putting.
I believe they cannot help it.
That gives me a different approach
than blaming.
Rather than being obnoxious back
or backing off -
acceptance creates a different dynamic.
Backing off, not being proactive
not being engaging = rejection
can only add to the other persons struggle.
One day I may become a sort of person
(maybe I am now?)
who is not attractive
who is not good to be with
who is not comfortable to be with.
I hope you will stay with me.
It will not be my choice to be like this.
AND I will need you more than ever.
