
........ there is a man who I see regularly who
never looks my way
never speaks until I say hello
never uses my name
more often a grunt
never eye contact
always the head dropped
this human person
and
yes
I WILL say
a beautiful human person
- will not change my way of
saying hello to everyone
using a name whenever I can recall
looking whilst communicating
I have decided to behave in a certain way
and another human
will not control my proactive communication
by their own behaviour.
I will not be a reactor
I know a woman who is nasty to me
all the time
every interaction
I will be
I will not be
a reactor
There is some deep sense of faith
and psychology/theology behind this -
I must try to understand it sometime.
"work like you don't need the money
dance like no-one is watching
sing like no-one is listening
and
love like you have never been hurt"
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