Wednesday, May 02, 2007













....we-are-all-unique - individuals. Agree?
We are all beautiful in our uniqueness. Agree?
We are all imperfection in our uniqueness. Agree?

Are you beautiful?
Are you imperfection?
Which do you find it easier to agree with?

Do you feel beautiful?
Do you feel imperfection?
Which one do you feel most?
Beautiful
or
imperfection?

Feelings are signals which give messages
about our life
and behaviour
in that life.

7% of that behavioural life is words
the rest is NVC
(non-verbal communication)
i.e. 55% is in the face!

The main thing,
pipology here,
Is that we 'own' our feelings.
Meaning
"I have feelings - what are they -
arrr hmmmmmm
Yes - I feel frustrated" (example)

Then THEN
and only then
can we manage our feelings and decide what sort of human we want to be because it is our feelings that can control our behaviour, by default, unless our central management system is switched on - meaning our thought/evaluating/value system.

Then
The words out of our mouth (7%)
The expression on our face(55%)
The motion and shape of our human frame(38%)
Can tell others they are beautiful
or
that they are
distasteful
boring
valueless
valuable
precious
............. and all what we believe ......

It
All starts with clocking those precious,
but not always nice to feel,
Feelings .....

You are beautiful right now
unconditionally
right now ....