"we are all born with clenched fists
but we will all die
with opened palms"
So goes a quote,
a bit like that, somewhere.
It is the 'pointed finger' person
who is aggressive.
Usually with raised voice
and using the words
'should'
and
'aught'
I never use the those two words.
I consider them to be oppressive.
There is no human in the world
who can say 'you should'
they have no right.
You are free to be free.
Freedom must be achieved
by the human individual themselves.
Imposed freedom
does not exist.
The 'palm person',
speaking/ communicating,
with the palms showing to the other,
is never angry and shouting.
It is impossible to put someone down
when displaying open palms.
70% of human communication is non verbal.
We exhibit our values in our frame.
We demonstrate our love,
or lack of love,
or inability to love
without words.
The biggest 'I love you'
did not come with a pointed finger
saying "you should...."
The biggest 'I love you'
was demonstrated with
open palms.
With holes in .......
.
