Wednesday, April 24, 2013

.....the snarling lips OF ABUSE.


If 
we have been brought up by someone 
who forces their face close to yours 
and hurling the words 
'you are a bad boy' 
'you are a bad girl' 

............................ often
 it is not the words we remember but 
the snarling lips, the flared nostrils, 
the spitting mouth ......
........ and a big feeling that 
"I am not ok"  
= 'I am bad' 

We demonstrate our value/love by .....
our non-verbal communication.

Abused become abused - it is said.