Friday, September 18, 2015

What LOVE looks like in public

In your Becoming
In my own Becoming
In my digging into my love for you
I need to ask myself questions ::

Is my love for you
oppressive possessive or manipulative 
or really affirming and liberating. 

It will help, 
in this self questioning if
I ask myself these questions:: 
1   Is it more important to me 
that you are nurtured into growth
or that I will be pleased in your momentum? 
2   Is it more important that you are 
self determining who you want to be, 
or that you become what I want for you?

If you are not self determining 
It could mean an oppressive relationship.

I believe in self determination
as much as I believe in anything.