The most powerful communication is what we are not NOT saying.
We communicate with every physical presence.
We communicate with every eye movement
twitch of our lips
head drop / lift / twist ……….
And so do others.
We can receive or reject feelings and the non-words & words from others::
*The needy, unattractive person asks me how much I can love.
*The death of a dear one asks me what I really believe about death and how profitably I can confront loss and loneliness.
*A beautiful day or a beautiful person asks me how capable I am of enjoyment.
*Solitude asks me if I really like myself and enjoy my own company.
*A good Joke asks me if I have a sense of humour.
*A very different type of person from a background dissimilar to my own
asks me if I am capable of empathy and understanding.
*Success and failure ask me to define my ideas of success and failure.
*Suffering asks me if I really believe I can grow through adversity.
*Negative criticism directed to me asks me about my sensitivities and self-confidence.
*The devotion and commitment of another to me asks me if I will let myself be loved.
* You are beautiful
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