Monday, May 23, 2016

Blaming is a discharge of pain.

‪#‎Separation‬ is sometimes needed to be able to ‪#‎love‬ a person 
I hope you will do that with me too.

I don't think I expressed it well here. 
Another shot:: 
I believe we need to separate the person from their behaviour to love. 
Meaning if we obsess about the behaviour 
it will distract us from loving the internal beautiful human - 
(an obnoxious person is a hurting person seems to me). ……. 
We all need to be responsible for our behaviour 
but often people are not able - 
so love and care first - 
later the behaviour needs to be owned. 
A good example is placing people with mental health issues in prison 
when they need help - principle acceptance and LOVE

Being self-aware means we are less likely blame people for their behaviour 
but look deeply behind their eyes for a reason causing the behaviour. 

Blaming is a discharge of pain.