"There is no such thing as a difficult person
only difficult behaviour."
"We can see a persons behaviour
but
we can’t see their journey."
"Assume everyone is doing their best.
Risk being wrong - feeling stupid."
These are my sort of values.
Thy click in my brain regularly and in my communications attitudes audible offerings - my living.
I have spent my life working with BHP’s with difficult behaviour -
even before I was responsible for a Young Offenders unit aged 27.
My behaviour has been outrageously bad over the years.
I regret much of my behaviour in the past.
But every bad experience has been a learning experience.
DONALD.
I see his behaviour::
CRUDE
STREET
BLUNT
RACIST
INSENSITIVE
UNBALANCED
UNLOVING
INSENSITIVE
OBNOIXIOUS
BIGOTED
SEXIST
SEXUAL ABUSER
EMOTIONALLY ILLITERATE
EMOTIONALLY DRIVEN
ATTENTION SEEKING
He is a beautiful human person!
Created beautifully.
It is hard to say this but you are, I am -
and it’s hard to say that of myself - but never of you.
Donald is beautifully created but I can see his behaviour too.
I have struggled all my life to understand a persons behaviour.
Striving to love them as they are, as I believe God does,
not just loving when they are ‘nice’.
I have found that the only way to get to some understanding
it to get to Level Five communication with a person -
a group can do that too!
That means reaching some depth of intimacy by sharing our life experiences together
always ALWAYS including sharing vulnerabilities …………
I don’t understand Donald.
Like all of us - he wears a mask.
He has decided what that is.
I don’t like his choice.
I would find it much more satisfying to see the real person however tough that my be.
I wonder what he is like behind the mask?
I wonder what his interior world is like?
I wonder how he deals with
mistakes
regrets
shame …….. ?
I expect there be scandal along the line.
Real upset for individuals and the nation.
AND whats so good about being great.
GREAT and LOVING feels good to me.
GREAT and powerful not so good - we can become ego based from that position.
He who was rich became poor - one of my favourite quotes.
I don’t understand Donald.
I fear for the USA and the World.
AND pray for us all - that we may learn from the
ugly as well as the beautiful.
Pip BHP
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