Tuesday, July 16, 2019

All about feeling what a young human feels when they are rejected







I am coming down after leading a training session.
Ordered a sandwich

but
no 100% fruit juice around
all have sugar
sooooooo I go for the tea - no milk, 
ever
always

I was asked to lead a session on
'Difficult behaviour'
'Behaving badly'
hmmmmmm

I decided to do an 'experiential' day
and lots of reflection to cultivate awareness and skills
the former always follows the latter.

I had a rammed room
140/150? - beautiful humans
all over the floor
no theatre style seating for me
lots sat on the floor
up the stairs
round the corners
too many to move around
but we did.

I encouraged them to jump through a hoop of 
'new experience'
three
three one minute role plays
all involved - not in 'fish-bowl' style
where all watch a role play
all were involved and feeling it
it was chaos
humming chaos
loved it loved it.

The feed-back from observers
was powerful
those in 'child'
those as a 'parent'
it rocked massive

they
they - told the whole room
they expressed what they
felt
observed
saw
felt
loved
hated
it was electric
buzzing.

All about feeling what a young human feels when they are rejected,
put down,
little recognition.
How they can pile up negatives, 
just like we can, 
which cripple.

We only see a humans behaviour
not their life experiences -
that is what we journey into 
when we build open relationships
equal open souls.

We share experiences
that then tells us about their behaviour
as we journey into a deeper relationship -
adult adult
not child parent
not being another parent in their lives
NOT!






you are beautiful
you are ...............