Tuesday, July 31, 2018
Level Five Communication.- powerful in every relationship.
I talk about Level Five when I get close enough to someone.
In Hostels, where I have spent many years of my life conducting group work,
often only starting at 10 in the evening,
I introduce L5 and
encourage all to share something of their lives on each of the five steps.
WOW
Powerful stuff.
Someone in Norway, and can’t remember his name,
reminds me often of his experience doing this L5 exercise MANY YEARS AGO.
It sticks in the gullet.
We remember an experience far more than words -
or talks/lectures - even conversations.
L5 is a major influencer in helping to heal broken relationships.
It can and has saved marriages.
It has helping all ages of humans to step into an emotional intelligent relationship -
at work - at home - in leadership & in every day communication.
You can find the downloadable image HERE.
BHP
Monday, July 30, 2018
Sunday, July 29, 2018
Maybe you have a word to describe exchanges of intimacy - which includes sharing feelings and vulnerability?
I woke up yesterday morning
thinking about 'dialogue' and other
forms of verbal human interaction.
I like dialogue better than discussion as
I feel that discussion is more about opinion exchanges rather than deeper more personal
interactions.
My stretched brain was trying to think of
a word / method which would be something more intimate than dialogue, discussion, conversation etc..
I struggled - maybe you have a word to describe exchanges of intimacy -
which includes sharing feelings and vulnerability?
On reflection, as I stepped into the day trying to be more alert (I am not a morning person) , my mind turned to my 'Level Five' concept which many people use by saying "Can we have a L5?"
Many families use those word as an introduction to desiring a more personal interaction.
I love it when people refer to another as a ' L5 friend'.
I am myself privileged to belong to a group of BHP's who refer to ourselves as a 'L5 Group'.
I am not about to go into details about L5.
If you wish to know more - you can search my webpage with key words to view my many reflections about the subject.
I want to be a L5 Friend with you.
I am privileged to have many.
But my soul is ready for more ..............
BHP
Level Five - the book.
Available & more details on Lulu.com
BHP
Saturday, July 28, 2018
Feeling unloved ?
.
Just
because
someone
doesn't
love
you
the
way
you
want
them
to,
doesn't
mean
they
don't
love
you
with
all
they
have.
BHP
Friday, July 27, 2018
'Making Love' & other games including ARMENIA - you changed my life.
AND BELOW
The ONE GAME in Armenia
( Armenia you changed my life )
I am in regular contact with BHP's who can slot themselves into this Blob Tree Tool so easily.
..... our feelings impact our behaviour.
Sometimes taking over =
Sometimes taking over =
reactive behaviour
OFTEN regrettable behaviour.
Damaged relationships
+
unsettled soul.
Dissatisfied life.
+
unsettled soul.
Dissatisfied life.
Let’s learn together how to join the dots between
our emotions & our brain.
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#YouAreBeautiful
Thursday, July 26, 2018
Greenbelt Festival - video
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I wish I knew you better deeper closer
I have been asking questions online again.
Just asking ::
'IF you you wrote a book about your life
what would the title be?'
I had great comments back on my Facebook page.
Deep reflective book titles.
A few making light of the question
(which I expect and accept)
I love the thought,
that even if the masses didn't feed back to me,
that their internal consideration
of the question - would be personally developmental.
A week or so later I added my own answer::
My biography, when I was 40,was titled
GUTTER FEELINGS.
feeling in the drains -
GUTTER FEELINGS.
feeling in the drains -
feeling pretty dirty battered committed scarred .......
they were feelings.
I had ‘only just’ discovered my feelings
& started on the journey of learning to manage them.
20 odd years later
I added experiences & stories about my work mission at
ROMFORD YMCA
( Gutter Feelings the book - is on Lulu.com )
If I did a biography NOW it would be::
‘Beautiful Imperfection’
would be the title.
About the journey of believing in
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Knowing I was, and am, IMPERFECTION.
So many stories of human interaction & self discovery
Knowing I was, and am, IMPERFECTION.
So many stories of human interaction & self discovery
as I strive to live what I believe.
Thanx for taking part if you did.
Or at least reading what others who have shared
(which trust will have stimulated your own internal being & BECOMING)
BHP
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