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55 years of living / working with young people in hostels
I learned many things.
1 Never lend a £1 when asked -
but
ONLY give
but
ONLY give
because that young person will spend the rest of her/his life avoiding me which shatters any hard fought relationship.
Entering a helping relationship can be painstakingly slow without any £1 setback.
BHP