Friday, November 09, 2012

What we are NOT saying - the greatest communication.




It is a difficult task 

for the listener/receiver 
AND pretty much a challenge 
for the speaker/sender too. 

I am interested in communication and that means 
'words out' but also  
'words in'. 
We cannot be communicators unless we listen ....
... otherwise we may-as-well 
talk to ourselves! 

FOOTNOTE::
WORDS are only 7% of communication


Add to all this 
THE GREATEST COMMUNICATION IS
WHAT WE ARE NOT SAYING.

the complexity of 'non verbal communication', 
body language, 
and we have something in everyday usage 
open to great misunderstanding. 

But my experience is that street-wise young people
can read you like a book.
They can see in your eyes wether you love them.
They can read your posture and tell if you are all mouth - or not.

It all starts from the INSIDE
it seems to me.
Working on the 
social/emotional/spiritual
our soul - is the number one.

If we love another,
even if everything else about us is
fumbling stumbling stuttering whatever,
others can read our love
because it leaks through ever pore.

LOVE WINS.