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I have feelings and want to share
About level five with the group
Had five to start with,
humans that is.
Then it grew in number
as we went through the level five from bottom to top.
It is really tough on the leader and also the members
when a climate of self revelation is kicking in and
then comes the invasion of others into the group
who are not synchronized
with the feelings of others.
I always go on about the level five stuff.
If you are new to it all
it is about the five levels of communication.
I have blob drawings so people
can say where they are and stuff.
I will click through them again:-
Please start reading from level one
and climb up NOW
level five;- total openness
level four;- feelings
level three;- opinions
level two;- facts
level one;- cliché
The idea is to stretch ourselves
to build relationships
by being authentic in communication.
If we stay down the bottom end,
communication and life itself - is boring.
( of course we are all at the facts
and opinions level sometimes -
but to stay there
bbbbrrrrrrrrr so cold)
Feelings, sharing them,
is the start of level five communication.
I believe we get more
and give more in that very place.
We, the group, walked through the levels
from top to bottom
and everyone shared about themselves;-
a cliché about me and my communication
a fact about myself
an opinion I hold about myself
a feeling I have about myself
a new,
not yet shared with this group,
openness statement about self.
wow wow - electric stuff ............. try it
by starting to be open
vulnerable with another
or a group ..................
BHP
