Wednesday, December 06, 2006


What do you see ....
What do you feel .....

........ there is a man who I see regularly who
never looks my way
never speaks until I say hello
never uses my name
more often a grunt
never eye contact
always the head dropped

this human person
and
yes
I WILL say
a beautiful human person
- will not change my way of
saying hello to everyone
using a name whenever I can recall
looking at the human whilst communicating

I have decided to behave in a certain way
and another human will not control my proactive communication by their own behaviour.
I will not be a reactor

I know a woman who is nasty to me
all the time
every interaction

I will be
I will not be
a reactor

There is some deep sense of faith and theology behind this
- I must try to understand it sometime.

What do you see .....
What do you feel .......
What do you do .....

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