I wonder if you are in stretch?
Do you choose stretch?
Or do you choose comfortable?
Growth does not reside in a place called comfortable.
I know sometime
we need to choose comfortable.
Rest awhile
refresh
chillax.
I always remember doing the red pill blue pill thing
with a group of beautiful humans who were unemployed,
with stress fractures of the soul.
Some alcoholics, mental health issues, chemical influences, background of rejection/neglect .......... da de da.
Blue Pill =
comfortable, no risks, safe, secure, predictable, certainty ...........
Red Pill =
uncomfortable, risk, adventure, uncertainty, stretch, hurt, danger ...........
One young woman said to me
"I want to take the Red Pill Pip.
But my life is such a mess I must take the Blue Pill".
She reached out to the table in the centre of the group,
laden with sweets and picked up and ate a Blue Smartie .........
I understood.
I understand.
I loved her in it and she knows I do.
She had real bouts of suicidal feelings.
Yet she came to my group.
She wanted to be with others.
Not hiding - wanting.
But she was brave enough to consider Blue or Red.
Brave enough to also decide - make a decision.
So often there is no decision.
Status Quo rules.
Lots to reflect upon myself here at Wilson Mansions.
I need to get stuff out of my soul
I am full-up!
Will do tomorrow when I finish my stretch.
I think of you before I close up my mac laptop.
I wonder how your soul is?
I wonder if you yearn for the Red Pill -
getting out of your comfort zones?
I wonder if you you are yearning for an opportunity to be offered a Blue Pill?
I wonder if you place yourself in a place to decide?
Whatever you decide, you are beautiful.
Whatever you decide -
choose life …….
BHP