Monday, October 06, 2003

"we are all born with clenched fists but we will all die with opened palms"
So goes a quote, a bit like that, somewhere.

It is the 'pointed finger' person who is aggressive. Usually with raised voice and using the words 'should' and 'aught'
The 'palm person', speaking/ communicating, with the palms showing to the other, is never angry and shouting. It is impossible to put someone down when displaying open palms.

80% of human communication is non verbal.
We exhibit our values in our frame.
We demonstrate our love, or lack of love.

The biggest 'I love you' did not come with a pointed finger saying "you should...."

The biggest 'I love you' was demonstrated with open palms.